My approach means creating a safe, welcoming space for all couples to express their commitment in ways that feel authentic to them. I work with each couple to ensure their ceremony reflects their values, traditions, and love story without judgment or assumptions.
Celebrating love of all orientations and backgrounds, I'm committed to helping you create a meaningful experience that celebrates your love, exactly as it is.
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Getting married is a huge moment and it deserves more than a quick template.
I take time to listen to your story, learn what matters most, and thoughtfully shape a ceremony that honors your relationship. From the first consultation through your wedding day, you will have a clear process, personal guidance, and a ceremony designed with care.
Custom ceremony script writing
Elopements and intimate weddings
Personalized wedding ceremonies
A warm, custom ceremony created around your relationship, your values, and the feeling you want your guests to carry with them.
Wedding Officiant Services
Don't under-think your ceremony script.
A meaningful option for couples celebrating in a smaller, more personal way—whether it is just the two of you or a few people you love most.
Already have someone special officiating? I offer ceremony services for couples who want a friend or family member to perform their ceremony. It's a stress-free experience for your officiant, and you'll sleep comfortably knowing they are super prepared for your ceremony.
An Inclusive Wedding Officiant
"From the second we spoke I knew I wanted her to marry us. She was so welcoming and warm and made this part of the wedding process so easy for us. Her attention to detail made our ceremony so personal and special. She really was able to capture all of the moments that led up to our marriage. I would 100% recommended her to anyone and everyone! It’s obvious she was made to do this!"
"Ashlee is an artist and a storyteller in the purest form, not to mentioning a glowing presence with the kindest soul. She paints pictures of love with her words. She listened to us, she learned about us, and she perfectly reflected us with the ceremony that she created. Ashlee left a mark on our lives forever, and I am lucky to not only have had the opportunity to have her officiate our wedding, but to now call her a friend."
"Ashlee's professionalism, organization, and rare ability to really hear what people say showed during our meetings and our ceremony. She prepped us with homework, explained our options, and encouraged us to really make it our own. Ashlee not only wrote our ceremony, but also stepped up as a day-of coordinator, ensuring we did not have to worry about any details. We were able to get ready for the wedding without any stress because of her grounded nature and attention to detail. Ashlee - she helped us start off our wedding, and more importantly our marriage, in the most beautiful way possible."
CLIENT REVIEWS
I'm Ashlee, the wedding officiant who probably feels more like your longtime friend than a vendor. Based in Norfolk, Virginia (but ready for adventures anywhere), I believe your marriage matters way more than the napkin colors. I'm the person who writes ceremonies that actually sound like YOU, helps you navigate wedding planning without losing your sanity, and yes – I'll even coach your best friend to officiate if that's your vibe.
When I'm not helping couples say "I do" with intention and joy, you'll find me with a camera in my hand or covered in clay, always learning new ways to bring mindfulness and creativity into this beautiful work.
If you're looking for someone who genuinely cares about your story and wants to help you create something authentic and unforgettable, we should definitely chat.
Your Officiant:
Ashlee Felton
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